Monday, March 22, 2010, 02:07 PM - Random
(I started this on Friday and just finished today. I had a busy weekend! I'll be writing more later this week!)Happy Friday n stuff, fans, frenemies and faithful/faithless readers!
I love that people responded to my theory that the masses are extra appreciative of Gabourey because of her size. Oddly enough, when I mentioned the topic on Twitter, before I published my article, I got 7 ugly emails. 2 claimed that I was too thin to have an opinion, 2 claimed I was too white, 1 claimed I was racist and the last 2 just claimed I was stupid. While I won't argue that my physique or ethnicity has affected my general outlook, neither renders my opinion invalid. And if you really think I'm racist or a fat-phobe or a complete idiot, well, thanks for thinking of me at all!
After posting my opinion I got NO hate mail. I was actually kind of disappointed. After all of that build up it was a bit of a let down! I am really enjoying the comments, though. A couple agree that obesity is becoming far too accepted in society. Several invoked the "fat doesn't equal unhealthy and thin doesn't equal healthy" argument.
I agree that weight doesn't dictate health. I am totally on board with that notion. Like many of you, I have friends who weigh more than me and can kick my ass in cardio fitness and cholesterol levels. And some of them are probably on the "overweight" side of the chart.
But the example I gave wasn't of a woman who is carrying an extra ten pounds, or even twenty or thirty pounds. And the example I gave isn't someone who is being recognized for talent X and who happens to be overweight. The example I used is a 350 pound woman. That is morbidly obese. There is a difference between being overweight and being obese. There is even a difference between being obese and being morbidly obese. And I zoned in on the fact that she is being celebrated for her extreme obesity.
So, while fat may not automatically equal unhealthy and not all fat people will get diabetes, have heart disease or joint problems, suffer from sleep apnea, and so on and so forth- the likelihood is much higher. Sure, there are exceptions. There are smokers that live to be 101. Keith Richards is still alive and kicking. Does either of these examples incite you to pick up a pack or a needle? Why is the fat example so different?

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